Monday, May 18, 2009

Terrific Teens 16/05/09

How To Honour Your Parents by Dexter Ng

“ Honour your father and mother …”

Exodus 20:12


WHY DID GOD GIVE THIS COMMANDMENT ?

Because…

¡There are no perfect parents!
¡Respect for authority begins at home
¡How I relate to my parents will affect every other relationships

HOW TO HONOUR MY PARENTS ?
As A Child/Student, I Honour My Parents By Obeying And Respecting Them

 

  Obeying means do what they said pleasantly.

    “ Children, obey your parents; this is the right thing   to do because God has placed them in authority over you. ”

Ephesians 6:1 (LB)

“A son who mistreats his father or mother is a public disgrace. ”                        

Proverbs 19:26 (LB)

As A Young Working Adult, I Honour My Parents By Accepting And Appreciating Them

Accepting means realize God use them to bring me into this world.

   Accepting means listening to what they have to say.

   “ Listen to your father who gave you your life and do not despise your mother… ”                      

Proverbs 23:22

Accepting means to forgive them.

             “ If you curse your parents, your life will end like a lamp that goes out in the dark. ”       

  Pr. 20:20 (GN)

You forgive them for what they did wrong and you choose to focus on what they did right.

“ Be grateful for the good things that the Lord has given you and your family…”         

Deut. 26:11(GN)

    Appreciate their efforts.

   Appreciate their sacrifices.

     “When your mother is old, show her your appreciation.”                                    Pr. 23:22 (GN)


As An Adult, I Honour My Parents By Affirming And Not Abandoning Them

   

    Affirming means staying in touch with them.

    Affirming means listening to their counsel.

“ Do not withhold good from those who deserve it, when it is in your power to act. ”  Proverbs 3:27

  “ Anyone who won’t care for his own relatives when they need help, especially his own family, has no right to say he is a Christian. Such a person is worse than the heathen.”        1 Tim. 5:8 (LB)

“They should…put their religion into practice by caring for their own family and so repaying their parents and grandparents, for this is pleasing to God”

1 Timothy 5:4 (LB)



Monday, May 11, 2009

Terrific Teens 09/05/09


Movie Day - Facing The Giants

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Next week: Parents' Day
(plus a visit to Columbia Asia Extended Care Hospital, Shah Alam)

*Sorry for the last minute change of program - exchange of Parents' Day & Movie Day